#108076 - 01/01/07 07:34 PM
Re: Problems In The White Community
[Re: John317]
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I believe that secular society should be totally accepting of gays but that the Christian church has an obligation to tell the truth about its being sinful to practice homosexuality. The problem with secualr society is that they tell gays they cannot change. They tell gays they must live out the gay lifestyle. Contrast that to how we treat alcoholics. Alcoholics are told their behavior is not acceptable and mental health provides have treatment centers for them. the church should be totally accepting of gay people in the sense of loving them as individuals who need salvation the same as everyone else, and they should always be made to feel welcome to worship with other Christians. I agree and for the most part that is how the church treats alcoholics. So it seems the church is at one extreame and secular society is at the other extreame. Both, for the most part, treat alcoholics as they should be treated. In my opinion, gays should be treated the same way.
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#108077 - 01/01/07 07:37 PM
Re: Problems In The White Community
[Re: Redwood]
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I believe that Intelligent Design is as much science as Evolution. The "facts" of science change over and over again over the years . So if you believed the "facts" of science of a few years ago ... they would now be thought of as fantasy. Their "facts" continue to change. And at least the creation science does not keep changing like the "facts" of "science". Like I said, the failure to understand what science is shows a major failure of the education system Science is NOT facts. Science is a process for producing theories that make accurate predictions. /Bevin
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#108078 - 01/01/07 07:40 PM
Re: Problems In The White Community
[Re: Shane]
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I fail to see how listening to classical music per se could be a problem. Would someone care to explain that one? Any obsessive-compulsive behavior is a problem as has the potential to interupt one's family life, work habits and religious devotion. If listening to classical music became an obsessive-compulsive behavior, like listening to other types of music have for some people, than it is a problem for that person. OK, I can see that aspect. In other words, it's not the fact that it's classical music but the fact that they are letting it control their lives instead of their controlling it. Like you say, that can happen with any type of music. I assume, then, that even gospel humns could theoretically result in the same kind of problems.
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#108079 - 01/01/07 07:59 PM
Re: Problems In The White Community
[Re: Shane]
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I believe that secular society should be totally accepting of gays but that the Christian church has an obligation to tell the truth about its being sinful to practice homosexuality. The problem with secualr society is that they tell gays they cannot change. They tell gays they must live out the gay lifestyle. Contrast that to how we treat alcoholics. Alcoholics are told their behavior is not acceptable and mental health provides have treatment centers for them. the church should be totally accepting of gay people in the sense of loving them as individuals who need salvation the same as everyone else, and they should always be made to feel welcome to worship with other Christians. I agree and for the most part that is how the church treats alcoholics. So it seems the church is at one extreame and secular society is at the other extreame. Both, for the most part, treat alcoholics as they should be treated. In my opinion, gays should be treated the same way. As far as being welcomed into the church to worship and fellowship, I think the church needs to do the same with everyone, and just be glad they have chosen to come to church, instead of lecturing them or telling them they need to change something. I've heard horror stories of people entering churches to worship and being turned away or given a lecture because they might have on earrings or not be dressed right, etc. I think having a friend at church that you know really wants to see you and will be there to welcome you is one of the most powerful motives people have for going to church. Probably most "white churches" could do a better job at being more spontaneous, genuinely welcoming and warm, and less formal.
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Turning and turning in the widening gyre/ The falcon cannot hear the falconer;/ things fall apart; the center cannot hold; Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world... Surely some revelation is at hand;/Surely the Second Coming is at hand. W.B. Yeats
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#108080 - 01/01/07 08:12 PM
Re: Problems In The White Community
[Re: Redwood]
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Thank you John 317 .
What you have said is so true.
My wife has gays in her family. They are such loving and fun people to be with. We love them. They have had it rough because of POOR treatment in the SDA church. But, they love the Lord. They just can't love the Lord in the church. What a shame.
WE need to love ALL sinners and like you say ... Hate ALL sin.
Thank you for what you posted. I love the SDA church and I can honestly say I love all the people too. I know that it is God's Spirit in me that makes me feel that way. Just wondering if the people you are talking about want to change. It sounds like they received poor treatment in the church from private individuals rather than as a result of official decisions on the part of the church. Is that right?
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Turning and turning in the widening gyre/ The falcon cannot hear the falconer;/ things fall apart; the center cannot hold; Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world... Surely some revelation is at hand;/Surely the Second Coming is at hand. W.B. Yeats
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#108081 - 01/01/07 09:04 PM
Re: Problems In The White Community
[Re: John317]
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It sounds like they received poor treatment in the church from private individuals rather than as a result of official decisions on the part of the church. Is that right?
The SDA church has issued official statements opposing gay marriage - for instance the Northern New England Conference released a press statement when Vermont was deciding on whether or not to allow civil unions. /Bevin
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#108083 - 01/01/07 09:32 PM
Re: Problems In The White Community
[Re: bevin]
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Ignoring the debatable issues of church attendance and homosexuality, the rest of the problems can all be described as "poor choices".
The solution that many in the secular world are adopting towards these is a mixture of education and carrot and stick.
When I see Christian churches denigrating all three, it makes me realize just how glad I am that my money is not funding these churches.
Pre-marital sex. The best known solutions involve teaching kids what the actual benefits and risks are, acknowledging that teenagers have strong sexual drives, and recognizing that masturbation is a reasonable and guilt-free solution to those drives. Churches usually go the ignorance-and-guilt route.
Abortions. Birth-control is far cheaper and better. That is why the Catholic Church opposes it. That is why Protestant Christians are opposed to it being taught in schools.
Secular entertainment. Lets admit that some is good and some is bad. Same is true of Christian books and movies and songs.
Poor diet. Why is the SDA church still wasting its time on the irrelevant noise about vegian v vegetarian and coffee, rather than teaching a modern science-based pragmatic diet?
Drunk driving. Where is the strong Christian push for European-level drunk-driving penalties?
Domestic violence. Of course that never happens in christian homes, right... which is why the Christian churches teach male-dominance.
Alcoholism. Ditto - which is why many use alcoholic beverages for communion.
Lastly, I can not drop this topic without slamming the USA fundamentalist Christian churches for their anti-science stance.
No wonder Europeans are rejecting organised Christianity - it is a disgrace to its founder. But more is involved here than evolution. I watch Christian churches denigrate medical research, teach stupid diet nonsense, fail to do the most rudimentary planning or research, and spend all their time on reiterating cliches without support and directly contradicted by actual evidence. We would be back in the dark ages having ignorant priests telling us what to do. Thank you...thank you...thank you...at last, someone who speaks to what frustrates and disappoints me about the religious "system".  Maybe it IS possible to remain a member of the church and not have to remove one's brain. Oops, I forgot...Bevin is not a member of the official church any more. aldona
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#108087 - 01/01/07 10:14 PM
Re: Problems In The White Community
[Re: aldona]
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Jesus loved the sinner and hated the sin.
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#108090 - 01/01/07 10:59 PM
Re: Problems In The White Community
[Re: bevin]
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Hate the Sin and Love the Sinner.
Do not judge the sinner but judge the sin.
We do have to make judgments and stand up for what we believe to be sin. And gay marriage in my view is sin. But I love the gay person.
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