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#123412 - 04/30/07 12:44 AM Interracial Marriage
Redwood Offline
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I would love to make some comments here but since Shane is the moderator .... I will refrain. It's not worth wasting my time with.



Edited by Stan Jensen (05/01/07 03:34 PM)
Edit Reason: This has been moved by Stan to the General Discussion Area
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#123436 - 04/30/07 03:21 AM Re: Interracial Marriage [Re: Redwood]
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Some good points, brother Brito.

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#123525 - 05/01/07 01:59 AM Re: Interracial Marriage [Re: olger]
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when I started going to church when I was 13 in 1975 I asked my SDA minister if it goes against God to marry outside of your race.

He told me yes.

I kept my mouth shut cause a mixed couple taught our very own primary at the time. I wanted to press the matter but I was a child.

the couple was an asian man and white woman.

I cant stand christians sometimes.

so EGW counseled against it?

counseled?
counseled?

what does that mean?
isnt it all counseled?
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#123547 - 05/01/07 06:05 AM Re: Interracial Marriage [Re: Parade Orange]
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Registered: 11/13/05
Posts: 6194
Loc: CA
 Originally Posted By: Parade Orange
when I started going to church when I was 13 in 1975 I asked my SDA minister if it goes against God to marry outside of your race.

He told me yes.

I kept my mouth shut cause a mixed couple taught our very own primary at the time. I wanted to press the matter but I was a child.

the couple was an asian man and white woman.

I cant stand christians sometimes.

so EGW counseled against it?

counseled?
counseled?

what does that mean?
isnt it all counseled?


I haven't read her quotes on this subject in a while, but I beleive the only reason she "counseled against it" is that children born from such a marriage went through terrible prejudice against them from both white and black. Also the truth is that there are cultural problems that arise in marriages between people of different cultures. (I know something about this personally as I'm white and am married to a Mexican Yaqi.) But Mrs. White never said it is a sin to marry outside of one's race. And of course there are fewer problems today from prejudice although they certainly do still exist. A close friend of mine in the military was half black and half white, and I remember him crying sometimes because of the prejudice he felt from both blacks and whites. He confided in me that he would not wish his experience on his worst enemies.
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#123561 - 05/01/07 03:22 PM Re: Interracial Marriage [Re: John317]
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Loc: Houston, Texas
A stable interracial marriage is better than having biracial babies out of wedlock, which I've seen quite often. I don't know what the percentages are, and I don't really care. I'll leave that to the census. Still, it happens, and seemingly more often than it used to. I'm speaking of people I see everyday who are probably not in the church.
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#123565 - 05/01/07 03:41 PM Re: Interracial Marriage [Re: Kountzer]
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That is comparing biracial babies that have two parents (of two different races) married together in a stable marriage - compared to a biracial baby that was born to an unwed mother who never married the father. As a rule, I would say most any child is better off if their parents are married in a stable marriage then if they never married to begin with or got divorced. A little boy coming home from school after being made fun of that has a loving father to hold and talk to him will obviously deal with the situation better than if he has a fatherless home.
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#123566 - 05/01/07 03:45 PM Re: Interracial Marriage [Re: Shane]
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#123579 - 05/01/07 05:44 PM Re: Interracial Marriage [Re: Stan Jensen]
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I don't like that term 'race' either. One could say 'ethnic background' however a white English guy and a white Greek girl have different ethnic backgrounds. So that isn't exactly the right terminology either.
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#123594 - 05/01/07 06:48 PM Re: Interracial Marriage [Re: Shane]
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Registered: 04/30/07
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whatever we think about it, it seems like its very popular. Inter-cultural marriages are flourishing!

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