It's not always the ones with the money who are the power brokers, but they are influential for whatever reason and often use their influence to intimidate people
Tell me about it. You are correct. Power brokers come in all shapes and sizes even though the rich ones do usually weild the stick most times. Big families can cause trouble too. I pastored a church with a 4th generation family in it. Grandma and grandpa and daughter and son inlaw were all on the board. They all fought like cats and dogs but when you had to make a decision in the board - they stuck together like glue. The grandpappy was going home from board meetings and telling his CB mate everything we discussed. We had to discipline him but the family would not dismiss him from off the board. The church was therefor hampered in it's ability to move forward and let fresh blood in. Blood is thicker than the waters of baptism.
The conference expects the pastors to demonstrate "leadership" in the churches without splitting them. This is nearly impossible to do without a great deal of diplomacy in dealing with these power brokers. I have seen pastors do this successfully in one church and fail at it in the next. There is no single answer that fits all churches.
Exactly. What the conference wants and what God wants is diametrically opposed. If you want fresh numbers then you have to do some house cleaning. Churches across Oz remain in a state of limbo because everyone is too afraid to make the first move towards reformation which usually involves confronting the power brokers. So it never happens and pastors smile and preach on cute stuff without ever getting down to business. Jesus said if you live as he lived you will suffer persecution - and EGW says in the last days that persecution will come from those sitting in the pew next to you - work it out people.
I do believe there is a single answer/remedy that will fix all broken churches - preach what God wants and stop preaching what the feminazi's want.
I tend to be a blunt truth-teller myself, so I can relate to what you're saying about preaching the straight truth. On the other hand, I have learned that being blunt is usually not the most effective way to inspire people to change. It does work with a certain type of person, but not with most. So I guess there is a time and place to be blunt or to be more tactful and gentle.
I have never been needlessly rude or blunt when I was a minister. I was always the first with cap in hand on the doorstep of members homes offering to talk or apologise. I no longer am the man I used to be because I really don't care anymore. I have no reputation to uphold like most ministers do. I have no need for the church and it's polotics and so I can say what I want now without the conference president ringing me up giving me an earbashing for following Christs commands.
Pastors have a tough job trying to reach the hearts of everyone in their congregations. Some people want to hear the straight truth, while others feel chastised at that kind of talk. On any given Sabbath, some people will truly need inspiring, while a few will need straight talk. I don't envy the pastor's job.
Pastors bring alot of it on themselves however. Name a pastor who doesn't have at least some enemies? Even the most retiring and placating ministers have some who secretly hate them. In fact, you are probably better off dishing up the Lords Spinach to the mob because they will hate you in the end anyway. No I don't have alot of sympathy for ministers if they lay down at the alter of fear and popularity just to hold onto their jobs. let the people shake them I say and maybe we will get someone soon in Oz who speaks from the hip.
Imo, the people who won't stand up to the bullies are at least as guilty as the bullies. And they deserve the kind of church they get. In some churches, any kind of conflict is taboo, so you have church boards that vote with the wind in order to get along.
Do you live in Oz? It sure sounds like it. Maybe there are similarities in our countries as far as SDA churches go after all. You would think by some other US comments that we are worlds apart - I suppose if we all wore rose coloured glasses we wouldn't see anything wrong.